Decisions? Stop, Look, Listen, then Choose

When you were small, you were probably taught that before you cross the street you should Stop, Look, Listen, then walk. What great advice. But were you also told to do this before making decisions?
Every day in our lives we make choices like what to have for breakfast, lunch or dinner, what to wear, when to schedule appointments, what groceries or items to buy, when you will do the things on your “to do list”, what to tackle first, etc. For most people these are quite simple, no brainers, so to speak, but for others the simplest choices can create anxiety and stress.
Sometimes day to day options become routine and you don’t have to give them much thought at all, you just do, or choose not to, and so it is. There isn’t a lot of questioning or after thought.
But at one time or another in our lives we are faced with difficult decisions in our jobs, relationships, health, financial situations, etc., that aren’t always as easy to make. Whether the choices are day to day ones or life altering, they can leave you feeling uneasy, doubtful, confused, fearful and unsure.
Making choices can often lead to second guessing whether you made the “right or wrong” one, whether you “should or shouldn’t” have chosen to say or do something.
Wouldn’t it be nice that when you make a decision you know it’s the correct one at this time in your life?
Wouldn’t you love to not have to question it over and over again? To not ask yourself “If only”…?
Decisions don’t have to leave you in a cool sweat, or waiting for the bomb to drop, or worrying and wondering.
Making choices doesn’t have to be as hard as you believe if you follow three simple directions.
STOP. Before making a decision, take a moment and a few deep breaths; become centered.
Making choices when you are calm results in much better outcomes. Some things don’t have to be decided right away, but because we feel scared, worried, uncertain, or jump to conclusions, or act or react from our emotions, etc., we make quick or hasty decisions that afterward leave one wondering whether it was the best one.
Before making a decision, ask yourself, “Is this something that has to be decided right this minute or can it wait until I am clearer, or in a better space, or have had time to be in the space I’m in right now?”
What is the worst that can happen if you don’t decide this minute, day, week, etc.?
Give yourself some time to relax; life isn’t about rushing, it’s about exploring. If the choices you are about to make are life altering, allow some time for you to see where you are at.
When you feel you are up against a difficult decision, don’t make it more difficult on yourself, give yourself some breathing room.
LOOK. Take a look at your options, don’t just jump at the first one unless it truly feels right to you.
It’s okay to not know right now what to do; take the pressure off and bring the peace in.
Perhaps this situation is occurring for you to make some changes and develop some new mindsets.
Look at what emotions are being triggered share this site by or from the decision you are making. This is a good time to see what’s holding you back or trying to get your attention.
Make a list of the pros and cons for the decision you are about to make, or the options you are pondering and remember, if you don’t have to decide right away, it can wait for you to explore it more.
LISTEN. It can be difficult to listen for insights when you are busy thinking about what could, should, or might happen.
If your emotions seem to be taking over, it can be hard to hear the quiet voice that knows what to do or not do. Allow yourself to explore what’s surfacing for you as this is a wonderful opportunity to learn, grow, and expand.
If the decision you are making seems rushed or based from your emotions, then it’s time to listen, not convince yourself of something that doesn’t feel right for you at this time.
We are all connected to the greatest source of wisdom; if we Stop, Look and Listen, then our choices will be divinely guided, not emotionally lead.
The Insight Technique assists you by working through the emotions, doubts and fears so you can make decisions from a centered insightful space within.

Dean Graziosi Explains All About All Inclusive Trust Deed

All Inclusive Trust Deed acronym AITD, and also known as Wrap-Around Mortgage simplifies all of the mortgages due on a single buyer. It often happens. You want to purchase a house, but you have already to pay mortgages on two or more houses. All Inclusive Trust Deed will help you combine all mortgages in to one deal.
To better understand, take for example a first existing mortgage of $250,000 with an interest of 6.4%. At the same time, you have another mortgage of $60,000 with an interest rate of 7%. With the help of AITD, the overall mortgage will become $315,000 at 8% interest (with some additional pay downs).
According to Dean Graziosi, AITD helps you counter all mortgages within one deal, no need to address another mortgage. Due to this capability of wrapping one or more deals in a single mortgage, it is given the name of Wrap-Around Mortgage. Dean Graziosi is an expert real estate magnet. He has made millions of dollars out of real estate business.
Like many of us, Dean started with a few hundred dollars in his hands. He was one of the poorest kids of his class. When he finalized first real estate deal of his life, he was no more than 18 years old. This happened some 20 years ago. Since then, Dean has never looked back. His hard work and determination laid him to the height of success, where only a few can reach.
Dean also teaches other aspirants of real estate rules and regulation of leading a successful career in real estate world. For this purpose, he runs forums and blogs. He has also written books. It is obvious from popularity of bestselling books that Dean is one of the best mentors of real estate world. Dean believes that in real estate world, there are advantages as well as disadvantages of each contract and agreement.
Let us have a look on advantages and disadvantages of All Inclusive Trust Deed.
• It is more flexible as compare to paying different mortgages on visit our website different deals.
• It allows negotiation on all of the terms including overall installment percentage.
• It includes all of the important financial issues including payment amount, interest rate, maturity date, late charges and prepayment penalty.
• It also allows those buyers who do not come up with large down payments.
• It also allows those buyers who have unusual credit history.
• Those buyers who do not qualify for a lender loan can also go for this option.
• The closing costs on AITD are very low.
• Underlying loans on the deals are overall high. This feature is more in favor of the seller as compare to buyer.
• In some cases, the lender might include “acceleration clause” thereby causing an instant quickness in the process of paying mortgage. Thus you must study all of the clause carefully. If you want to make any changes to the contract, take the action at the time, before signing the contract.
• If you are unable to pay the said accelerated loan, the property will be foreclosed.
• The buyer has to rely completely on the title company.
• Seller holds initial loan to make all payments.

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